"sticks and stones may break my bones but words are what really hurts me..." All I wanted was to be updated with what's going on, not to make things complicated or to argue or create conflict, but yet, why does it always happen? Why do things have to be so hard...I really don't know if it is I that am being selfish and inconsiderate or if it is the other person. In either case, I feel exactly the way that I don't want to feel right now. To hear someone tell me that I make them feel like they're "reporting" to me is a punch in the face because I am not trying to do that at all. What is wrong with wanting to know what the plan is going to be for the next few hours? What is wrong with knowing whether or not I will see someone tonight a few hrs ahead of time? I can accept that not everyone has a need to know like I do and I try to be more laxed and compromise, but at the same time, I expect that the person will realize my need to know and try to compromise as well. What good is it to get to know someone better if in the end, you do know and you just ignore what you know.
I don't want things to be complicated, I just want to be happy, I just want us to get along and listen to each other and be considerate, so why is it so hard. Is it me?
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